Am I Insecure





Isaiah 26:12
“ LORD, you establish peace for us; all that we have accomplished you have done for us ;All that we have accomplished in our lives is done by God." This is such a strong statement that we often tend to forget. We may say by our mouth that it is all God’s grace, but for real do we realize that truth , in every moment of our life? If we do, we should not be worried about ourselves. Most of the time, we are insecure about ourselves. That’s the reason we are so much worried about our look, personality, above all what others will think about me. If we believe that we are made by God in his own image, why we are insecure about our external look. Don’t we know, God has the most attractive beauty in this entire universe? If we believe whatever we are doing is God’s plan, then why we worry about what others think. Don’t we know, God’s plan never fails and he never do anything wrong. So our diminished faith makes us feel insecure. Our insecurity makes us always focus into ourselves, thus taking our focus away from others. Hence we love ourself, not others; We do things only for our own benefits, not others. If so, are we really following Christ who died for us because of his unconditional love towards us? In 1 John 4:7 it says “Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love”. So let’s love freely without worrying about ourself, without being insecure. Because no matter what, God loves you as you are, since he is your creator and every moment of our life is in his control.
"Lord help me to focus only on you , not on me. Take away all my insecure feeings, help me to love others unconditionally . In Jesus name , I pray, Amen!!!"

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